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Creative Routine and Rituals – How to Dream and Create Consistently

A creative routine is a topic that could expand to be as large and to shrink to be as small as you like, a bit like being able to sleep. While some people can’t focus until they have meandered around for hours and finally give in to guilt, others sit and get amazing work done by just holding the pen right: having a daily creative schedule could be complicated or could be simple and natural. 

What does a creative schedule even mean? A schedule that inspires creativity and helps the creators (writers, painters, entrepreneurs, designers, artists, and other creative professionals) forge their imaginations most desirably.

Also, creativity is subjective. A coder is creative when she can write a 100 line code in 10. A marketeer is creative when he can sell a toothpaste such as Pepsodent to the entire human race. 

Anyone with original ideas (in or out of their work sphere) is creative. 

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77 Deep Questions About Life – And Their Answers

Important Life Questions to Ask Yourself

 

I remember a quote that once said, ask the right questions. Over the years I have realized that questions are much more important than answers as without asking the right queries we can never hope for the right knowledge.

But it took me a while to even understand what questions I should ask of myself. Some of those doubts were always there in the background, hovering, emphasizing that I didn’t understand life. I had a vague feeling that I was dismaying over things that didn’t matter while ignoring the universal realities that would pull me out of my little problem bubbles. But I wasn’t sure. And I never took out time to pin those deep questions about life, and, hence, could never answer them.

The process of questioning deepened when I started writing and reading full-time. As I had redesigned my life from a corporate cycle of drudgery, I was too eager to question everything and to be better at the things I had failed at before. It was like I had found vigor again. The more I read, the more I understood, the more life questions I had, and the more incomprehensible it seems now.

As Franz Kafka once said, “Anyone who cannot come to terms with his life while he is alive needs one hand to ward off a little his despair over his fate… but with his other hand he can note down what he sees among the ruins.”

The effort continues.

I am putting down some thought-provoking questions that have hitherto found me here. I have followed a natural course and have clubbed thematic questions together.

I have answered all the questions to keep an account of my thoughts on the matter. As you will see, I have some answers, but some of the questions to life still dodge me. You can completely ignore my responses and find your own.

Along with the important questions about life and their answers, I am also putting down the books that have helped me understand the matter.

I plan to update these self reflection questions and answers year-on-year or whenever my understanding changes.

Till then, I present to you the questionnaire of life from my lens.

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Powerful Quotes On Everything in Life

Powerful Quotes on Life

 

Like many others, I read about the lives and work of many great artists, writers, physicists, musicians, innovators, thinkers. But rather than quoting them, I prefer to share my interpretation of their ideas, generally. I feel that I haven’t assimilated their words well if I share them plain rather than doughing them with my thoughts.

But it is not always about the source or amalgamation of motivation. Ideas and inspiration need to keep floating in the universe irrespective of where they come from. After all, we are only the means to an end, and we all need a guiding light.

In this piece, I am sharing some of the most profound quotes about life that I have come across. The hope is to read these avant-garde quotes, to come back to them whenever we need them, or sift through them even when we don’t feel we require them to keep ourselves soaked in inspiration and to not let it deplete.

Let the journey of inspiration and belief begin.

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Note: Titles recur and follow a random order of inspiration.

On Contemplation.

There are more things … likely to frighten us than there are to crush us; we suffer more often in imagination than in reality — Seneca.

(Read Open Letter to My Mind to see what all do we worry about.)

 

On Choosing.

“No” is a complete sentence — Annie Lamott.

Any justification dilutes the intent.

 

On Human Condition. 

Pity is a paralyzing mental luxury ― Will Durant.

But man is not made for defeat. A man can be destroyed but not defeated — Ernest Hemingway.

To be tough is to be fragile; to be tender is to be truly fierce — Farhana Qazi.

Don’t make adjustments an excuse — Yours Truly.

We hide behind the circumstances and never explore who we can be.

 

On Understanding Life.

Out of the quarrel with others we make rhetoric; out of the quarrel with ourselves, we make poetry – W.B. Yeats.

We should never be shy about questioning ourselves.

 

On Love. 

Why does the sun go on shining? Why does the sea rush to shore? Don’t they know it’s the end of the world, ’Cause you don’t love me anymore? — From The End Of The World by Arthur Kent and Sylvia Dee.

These lines don’t form a quote but they show how deep love can flow.

 

On Thinking Right.

Change your thoughts and you change your world — Norman Vincent Peale.

What we achieve inwardly will change outer reality — Plutarch.

But your questions, which are unanswerable without exception, all spring from the same erroneous thinking — Herman Hesse.

 

On Dreams.

All our dreams can come true if we have the courage to pursue them — Walt Disney.

 

On What is Important.

The best preparation for tomorrow is doing your best today — H. Jackson Brown, Jr.

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On Determination.

The most difficult thing is the decision to act, the rest is merely tenacity. The fears are paper tigers. You can do anything you decide to do. You can act to change and control your life; and the procedure, the process is its own reward — Amelia Earhart, an author, and the first female aviator to fly solo across the Atlantic Ocean.

(Read why we need to continue even if we are bleeding.)

 

On Honesty.

Honesty is the first chapter in the book of wisdom — Thomas Jefferson.

 

On Getting Started.

The secret of getting ahead is getting started — Mark Twain.

Never wait for the perfect moment. If you do not start right away, then it means you never wanted to do it.

All glory comes from daring to begin―Ruskin Bond.

 

On Success. 

However difficult life may seem, there is always something you can do and succeed at — Stephen Hawking.

Be the best sweeper you can be, and the doors of life will open in ways unknown.

(Read how to find something you can love.)

 

On Learning.

Adapt what is useful, reject what is useless, and add what is specifically your own — Bruce Lee

 

On Belief.

Believe you can and you are halfway there — Theodore Roosevelt

The rest is logistics.

 

On Life. 

Life is like riding a bicycle. To keep your balance, you must keep moving — Albert Einstein

Things work out on their own when you move.

Life is not a problem to be solved, but a reality to be experienced — Soren Kierkegaard, an existential philosopher.

 

On Kindness.

No act of kindness, no matter how small, is ever wasted — Aesop

One morning, I told my cleaning lady to wait until I finished my shower so that I could make tea for her. But I couldn’t get out of the bathroom because the door was jammed. I shouted a few times so that she could hear me, and she did and pushed the door open. We can’t always see kindness flowing freely, but it always does.

Try to be a rainbow in someone’s cloud — Maya Angelou

People rejoice when they receive an unexpected smile or a gentle hug. Their eyes speak. They feel that everything is okay. When I get out of my plastic bubble of sadness and smile, people smile, and we all fly high.

 

On the Matters of Heart. 

The best and most beautiful things in the world cannot be seen or even touched — they must be felt with the heart — Helen Keller

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On What is Important.

Having no limitation as limitation — Bruce Lee

Limitations are imaginary constructions of the human mind.

One those who will risk going too far can possibly find out how far one can go — T.S. Eliot

 

On Innovation.

I believe you have to be willing to be misunderstood if you’re going to innovate — Jeff Bezos

Don’t expect others to understand or appreciate your vision.

 

On Happiness. 

Very little is needed to make a happy life; it is all within yourself, in your way of thinking — Marcus Aurelius

You always have what you need.

 

On Eccentricity.

Do not fear to be eccentric in opinion, for every opinion now accepted was once eccentric — Bertrand Russell

Do what you think is right. The rest follows.

Every society honors its live conformists and dead troublemakers — Mignon McLaughlin.

Boldness has genius, power and magic in it —  W.H.Murray.

Here’s to the crazy ones. The misfits. The rebels. The troublemakers. The round pegs in the square holes. The ones who see things differently. They’re not fond of rules. And they have no respect for the status quo. You can quote them, disagree with them, glorify or vilify them. About the only thing you can’t do is ignore them. Because they change things. They push the human race forward. And while some may see them as the crazy ones, we see genius. Because the people who are crazy enough to think they can change the world, are the ones who do.”
― Rob Siltanen

(Read my journey from coding to writing: Breaking the barriers)

 

On the Troubles of Life. 

Clouds come floating into my life, no longer to carry rain or usher storm, but to add color to my sunset sky — Rabindranath Tagore.

If we detest problems, we would always think of life as troubles and solutions. But life isn’t binary. It is an infinite equation.

On Relationships. 

Hold this to be the highest task for a bond between two people: that each protects the solitude of the other — Rainer Maria Rilke.

We can only be with someone if they can be with our solitude.

(Read the importance of relationships and how to create them.)

 

On Pragmatism. 

History is something that very few people have been doing while everyone else was ploughing fields and carrying water buckets — Yuval Noah Harari, as he wrote in his book Sapiens.

A few plan, communicate, and lead. And the rest allow them.

 

On Doing. 

The shortest answer is doing the thing — Ernest Hemingway.

If we do, we get more answers than we would get by pondering.

 

On Fear. 

Let us not pray to be sheltered from dangers but to be fearless when facing them — Rabindranath Tagore.

I always tried to please or patronize people because I didn’t want them to be upset with me or fight with me. Over time, I realized that people will think what they want to think. Instead of trying to be in their good books always, I should be least bothered about what someone would say. I can stand up for myself if the other threatens my integrity or peace.

 

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On Art.

No great art has ever been made without the artist having known danger — Rainer Maria Rilke

 

On The Most Important.

If one way be better than another, that you may be sure is nature’s way — Aristotle. [Marcus Aurelius writes this in his diary Meditations as well]

What is natural can never be wrong.

(Read why we should let like takes its course, inspired by Rainer Maria Rilke’s Letters to a Young Poet.)

 

On Being Larger Than Life.

I don’t want to have lived in vain like most people. I want to be useful or bring enjoyment to all people, even those I’ve never met. I want to go on living even after my death — Anne Frank, as she noted down in her diary.

(Read along: what is the purpose of our lives.)

 

On Belief.

My mother was the greatest mother in the world. She thought I was the greatest thing on two feet. I’d come home with a little composition I had written at school, and she’d look at it and say, ‘It’s wonderful! You’re another Shakespeare!’ I always assumed I could do anything. It really is amazing how much that has to do with your attitude — Stan Lee.

First, believe.

 

On Everything in Life.

When asked, ‘How do you write?’ I invariably answer, ‘one word at a time.’ — Stephen King.

You can apply this to anything in life.

(Read everything I have learned so far: in 4,500 words.)

 

On Being Larger Than Life.

Everything comes to us that belongs to us if we create the capacity to receive it — Rabindranath Tagore.

 

On Truth.

Opinions are nothing, better than all is the self-contained calm of true realization. What does it matter which argument is true and which is false — what has been gained within is the real thing — Rabindranath Tagore writes in his book Gora.

 

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On Love.

Being deeply loved by someone gives you strength, while loving someone deeply gives you courage — Lao Tzu.

(Read why we need a life partner and how to find one.)

 

On Loneliness.

The time you feel lonely is the time you most need to be by yourself — Douglas Coupland.

 

On What is Important.

You are not a drop in the ocean. You are the entire ocean, in a drop — Rumi

You are complete in yourself.

 

On Life. 

Though we travel the world over to find the beautiful, we must carry it with us or we find it not — Henry David Thoreau.

Every journey to the outside begins from the inside.

 

On Human Condition.

Not until we are lost do we begin to understand ourselves — Henry David Thoreau

 

On Dreams and the Cosmos.

Look at the sky. We are not alone. The whole universe is friendly to us and conspires only to give the best to those who dream and work — A. P. J. Abdul Kalam.

Dream and work; the universe puts the rest of the pieces together.

 

On What is Important.

Never stop smiling not even when you’re sad, someone might fall in love with your smile — Gabriel Garcia Marquez.

On Being Larger Than Life.

There is nothing in a caterpillar that tells you it’s going to be a butterfly — R. Buckminster Fuller

Only you know what you are capable of.

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On Learning.

Instead of a grand pool of knowledge, a teacher should have a kind heart to facilitate an environment of learning — Yours Truly.

 

On Life.

There are no separate systems. The world is a continuum. Where to draw a boundary around a system depends on the purpose of the discussion― Donella H. Meadows.

 

On Truth.

Look, further on ahead, there, between truth and falsehood, a little empty space — Amrita Preetam.

 

On Becoming Better.

If you believe you can change and start changing your habits, the change becomes real― Charles Duhigg.

(Read why are habits so important.)

On Truth.

Live only with reason— Marcus Aurelius.

 

On Human Condition.

My grandfather was a wild-raspberry patch on the side of a mountain, and my grandmother was a flower garden in a concrete city — From The Stump Ranch Fish by Quinn Grover.

Do you believe that you don’t belong? We all have a place in the world; sometimes, it is the whole world.

 

On Art. 

The business of art is to reveal the relation between man and his environment — D. H. Lawrence.

 

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On Travel and Life.

It is not down in any map; true places never are — Herman Melville.

It is never about following the directions, it is about exploring.

All journeys have secret destinations of which the traveler is unaware — Martin Buber.

(Read what I have learned from traveling the world.)

 

On Writing.

Stories are our souls. Write and edit and tell yours with your whole selves. Tell them as if they are all that matters. It matters that you do it as if that is all there is — Jacqui Banaszynski

(Read my collection of articles on writing.)

 

On Time.

There’s never one sunrise the same or one sunset the same — Carlos Santana.

 

On Fear and Life.

Life is ours to be spent, not to be saved — D.H.Lawrence

Embrace fears. Overpower insecurities. Spend it for it was meant to be lived.

 

On Human Condition. 

The human soul needs actual beauty more than bread —  D. H. Lawrence

(Read and go back to the basics of life with The Little Prince.)

 

On Being Yourself.

Be yourself, everyone else is taken — Oscar Wilde

On Being Larger Than Life.

Another voice in his heart was telling him that he must not fall under the sway of the past and that one can do anything with oneself — Leo Tolstoy (as he wrote in Anna Karenina).

It is about overcoming the voices inside.

On Learning.

Life must be understood backward. But it must be lived forward ” — Søren Kierkegaard

We don’t know what will tomorrow bring but we can learn from the past.

(Read the 30 life lessons I learned in my twenties: Moving forward with pride.)

 

On Happiness.

Happiness is when what you think, what you say, and what you do are in harmony — Mahatma Gandhi

I rarely quote Gandhi, but this quote emphasizes the way of nature and the way of nature is always right.

 

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On Success.

Those who achieve the extraordinary are usually the most ordinary because they have nothing to prove to anybody. Be Humble — Aaron Lauritsen, as he wrote in his book 100 Days Drive.

We do the most amazing things when we mind our own business while rendering prestige useless.

 

On Life.

“Dig deep into your soul” — A Star is Born.

Don’t scratch the surface all your life. Fight. Strive. Bleed. Sweat. Cry. Run. Dig deep.

Once you lose that sense of wonder at being alive, you’re pretty much on the way out — David Bowie.

Don’t get so overshadowed by the problems, that you can’t see what is it all about. Live.

 

On Love and Work.

Your work is to discover your work and then with all your heart to give yourself to it —  Buddha

Devote yourself to your purpose.

(Read why work shouldn’t be boring and how to find and do what you love.)

 

On Travel.

यस्तु सञ्चरते देशान् सेवते यस्तु पण्डितान् !
तस्य विस्तारिता बुद्धिस्तैलबिन्दुरिवाम्भसि !! (A Sanskrit shloka that I can seem to find the source of. Please let me know if you know.)

The wisdom of the one who travels to many countries and serves the learned there increases as an oil drop spreads on water.

(Read why I travel the world.)

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On Creativity.

All of my big mistakes are when I try to second-guess or please an audience. My work is always stronger when I get very selfish about it — David Bowie.

Prestige or fame shouldn’t be your drive. Your only drive could be your own ghosts.

What I like my music to do is awaken the ghosts inside me. Not the demons you understand, but the ghosts — David Bowie.

 

On Success.

The moment we believe that success is determined by an ingrained level of ability as opposed to resilience and hard work, we will be brittle in the face of adversity — Joshua Waitzkin, as he wrote in his book The Art of Learning.

Nothing special is going to come to save you.

(Read how to nurture the art of learning, inspired by Josh Waitzkin.)

 

On Truth.

Always go too far, because that’s where you’ll find the truth —  Albert Camus.

To infinity and beyond.

 

On the Power of time and Persistence. 

If you want to direct your life on a continual positive change, then you need to tap into the most powerful force for change in the universe. Fortunately for you, that force is always with you. That force is time  — Jeff Olsen (as he wrote in his book The Slight Edge).

Time is what keeps everything from happening at once —  Ray Cummings.

If time frightens us, this is because it works out the problem and the solution comes afterward —  Albert Camus.

But how else would it be?

(Read the importance of the process of learning versus the result.)

 

On Happiness. 

Happiness isn’t the result of getting all the other stuff right, but something you can do right now, and that then leads to getting the other stuff right. Be happy and the reason will appear — Jeff Olsen (as he wrote in his book The Slight Edge).

 

On Human Mind. 

Once in a great while, a few times in history, a human mind produces an observation so acute and unexpected that people can’t quite decide which is the more amazing — the fact or the thinking of it — Bill Bryson, as said in his book A Short History of Nearly Everything.

 

On Human Condition and Art. 

A human being is the only animal that thinks about future — Daniel Gilbert, as he wrote in his book Stumbling Upon Happiness.

I began to experience the fullness of winter in Kashmir, and finally understood what artist Cezanne meant when, as he painted, he attempted to capture the multiple reflections of a scene. “The landscape thinks itself in me…I am its consciousness,” he once said — Farhana Qazi, quoting the French Painter Cezanne in her book Secrets of the Kashmir Valley.

(Read the 15 things we overthink about)

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On Suffering. 

Is it not a relief from suffering to be permitted to express it? —Paul Cézanne.

On the Past and Doing Better.

Do the best you can until you know better. Then when you know better, do better — Maya Angelou.

Don’t rue over the past. We couldn’t have done any better when we didn’t know any better. To live is to learn.

On Hope. 

Hope is the magic carpet that transports us from the present moment into the realm of infinite possibilities —  H. Jackson Brown, Jr.

On Truth.

Say not, ‘I have found the truth,’ but rather, ‘I have found a truth.’ — Khalil Gibran.

 

On Human Condition.

Don’t underestimate the power of a human being. If needed, human consciousness can reach farther than the depths of the ocean—Yours truly.

उध्दरेदात्मनात्मानम् — udhdaredātmanātmānam —  Save yourself by yourself —  Swami Vivekananda

No one hurts you as much as you hurt yourself.

(Read how to manipulate consciousness to change reality.)

 

On the Small Things of Life.

The true secret of happiness lies in taking a genuine interest in all the details of daily life — William Morris.

Without the details, the bigger picture won’t matter.

 

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On Worrying. 

Nothing in life is as important as you think it is, while you are thinking about it ― Daniel Kahneman, as he wrote in his book Thinking Fast and Slow.

 

On Power. 

The most common way people give up their power is by thinking they don’t have any —  Alice Walker.

No one can make you feel inferior without your consent — Eleanor Roosevelt.

 

On Being Larger Than Life.

The atom bombs are piling up in the factories, the police are prowling through the cities, the lies are streaming from the loudspeakers, but the earth is still going round the sun — George Orwell.

 

On Happiness and Experience.

The way an experience ends is more important to us than the total amount of pleasure we receive — until we think about it — Daniel Gilbert, as he said in his book Stumbling Upon Happiness.

The ending might seem to matter the most until you think about the experience. So think.

 

On Happiness and Human Condition. 

We treat our future selves as though they were our children, spending most of the hours of our days constructing tomorrows that we hope will make them happy — Daniel Gilbert, as he explained in his book Stumbling Upon Happiness.

To be a human being means to possess a feeling of inferiority which constantly presses towards its own conquest. The greater the feeling of inferiority that has been experienced, the more powerful is the urge for conquest and the more violent the emotional agitation ― Alfred Adler.

It is up to us to stop it.

(Read how to choose between ambition and happiness, lessons inspired by Friedrich Nietzsche.)

 

On the Redundancy of Abundance. 

So much is available, almost nothing can be found — Pico Iyer.

 

On Human Condition.

And dimly she realized one of the great laws of the human soul: that when the emotional soul receives a wounding shock, which does not kill the body, the soul seems to recover as the body recovers. But this is only appearance. It is really only the mechanism of the re-assumed habit. Slowly, slowly the wound to the soul begins to make itself felt, like a bruise, which only slowly deepens its terrible ache, till it fills all the psyche. And when we think we have recovered and forgotten, it is then that the terrible after-effects have to be encountered at their worst — David Herbert Lawrence, as he wrote in his book Lady Chatterley’s Lover.

Time only seems to cover up a wound while the experience seeps into the deepest crevices of our consciousness.

 

On Being Larger Than Life.

One who daily puts the finishing touches to his life is never in want of time —  Seneca, as he noted in Letters From A Stoic.

Live as if no one is watching.

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On Doing Less. 

Most people think that big success is time-consuming and complicated. As a result, their calendars and to-do lists become overloaded and overwhelming. Success starts to feel out of reach so they settle for less. Unaware that big success comes when we do a few things well, they get lost trying to do too much and in the end accomplish too little. Over time they lower their expectations, abandon their dreams, and allow their life to get small. This is the wrong thing to make small.

Going small is ignoring all the things you could do and doing what you should do. It is recognizing that not all things matter equally and finding the things that matter most. When you go as small as possible, you will be staring at one thing. And that’s the point — Gary Keller and Jay Papasan, as they explained in their book The One Thing.

 

On Forgiveness.

I thought that I needed your apology to move on. I really needed to forgive myself first —  Najwa Zebian.

When someone wrongs us, we need to forgive ourselves for trusting that person. Only then her side of the story comes in.

 

On Consciousness.

We don’t just treasure our memories. We are our memories — Daniel Gilbert, as he illustrated in his book Stumbling on Happiness.

On Truth.

Necessity is not an established fact, but an interpretation — Friedrich Nietzsche

We need much less than we think we do.

On Truth and Life.

The truth is, we know so little about life, we don’t really know what the good news is and what the bad news is —  Kurt Vonnegut.

 

On Human Condition.

Caught in the deluge, we were torn — wanting to run for shelter but tempted, also, to sing in the rain — Joyce Maynard, as she wrote in An 18-Year-Old Looks Back on Life.

(Read about mindfulness and how to practice it, lessons inspired by Buddha as interpreted by Osho.)

 

 

On Being Larger Than Life.

To use your head you have to go out of your mind— Timothy Leary.

Psychedelics or no psychedelics, this is true.

 

One moment is dark,

and the next moment there is light,

you don’t have the slightest hint

of what is going to come next,

then why do you knit your brows,

smile for the now,

smile for the blue sky under which you sleep,

smile for the bright moon that gives strength,

smile for the bread you have just had,

smile for that you still breathe,

because you don’t know what would happen the next moment,

but don’t be scared,

for you cannot change anything,

all you can do is face the today fearlessly,

and that might just do it.

By Yours Truly.

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On Love and About Everything in Life.

To live in this world

you must be able

to do three things

to love what is mortal;

to hold it

against your bones knowing

your own life depends on it;

and, when the time comes to let it go,

to let it go.

By Mary Oliver, as said in the poem “In Blackwater Woods”.

To the Great Ocean,

Of the sunken arm that throws up a drop of water nothing remains but a kiss of salt.

Of the bodies of mankind along your shores a misty scent of wet flowers is all that lasts.

Your energy seems to slip away without ever being exhausted,

it seems to circle back into your calm.

By Pablo Neruda, from his poetry book, The Essentials of Neruda.

 

On Pausing. 

With every click of the shutter,
you’re trying to press pause on your life.
If only so you can feel a little more comfortable moving on
living in a world stuck on play — 
Morii, From Dictionary of Obscure Sorrows.

 

On Strength.

So few grains of happiness
measured against all the dark
and still the scales balance.

The world asks of us
only the strength we have and we give it.
Then it asks more, and we give it.
by Jane Hirshfield.

 

Let’s inspire ourselves when we are down, but not before accepting our feelings, letting them linger for a while, looking at them objectively, and when we know better, we can move on to deal with more.

In a moment, a moment is gone. And all we have is this moment. Let’s spend it with reason.

 

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Everything I Have Learned So Far

Important Life Lessons to Fall Back Upon

 

The Artist is no other than he who unlearns what he has learned, in order to know himself — E.E. Cummings

While writing full-time for almost three years now, I have spent a lot more time looking inwards (and would continue to do so) than I did before. When I reflect on myself, I am able to look outwards with more compassion and a deeper understanding of life. And this growing insight into the external world and my own form the roots of my personal growth and my art, both of which, in turn, feed the soil with the dew from their leaves.

Learning paves way for more learning.

In this piece, I share everything that I have learned so far as a writer and from before. I believe that all that was important must have made itself available to my mind and heart while I was writing the article. And if I have missed something, either I do not care about it enough or it will appear in some form later and is not crucial until then.

Though this is more a cheat sheet for me and less an article for a reader looking for the wisdom of life, I hope I have shared some experience that will help you sail along this immense sea of life with a bit more ease. I am 32 years old, and this list of life learnings is long so you can skip ahead and read a section (all are randomly arranged with short titles) or go grab a coffee and then come back later to continue from where you left.

life learnings-Caspar_David_Friedrich_-_Landschaft_mit_Gebirgssee,_Morgen.jpgBy Caspar David Friedrich / Public domain

 

Work, Skills, and Perseverance.

Quoting Galib or Bukowski or Edison doesn’t make anyone a poet or a writer or a visionary. Ideas hit hard as a hailstorm by living a dedicated life. 1

You will have to put in immense effort to create a remarkable life. There is also a teeny-tiny factor of luck. 2

Things take their course. Hydrate yourself with patience. 3

You can only shift the world right now, not in five minutes. 4

In simple terms —The quality of the 10,000 hours you spend to build skills is significant. The number of hours I sit on the chair to write is important, but the number of hours I don’t know if I was on the chair is even more important. Don’t pretend, do. 5

A tiny bit and one more tiny bit and another tiny bit matters̶ more than one large bit. The sum of many small things might not be greater than one big one, but several intangible forces start working in your favor when you are consistent. 6

 

Honesty. 

Your honesty aids you more than it benefits anyone else. 7

Honesty is a formless invincible savior. 8

 

Personality and Behavior.

A good life is not defined by work or relationships. The size of your bungalow or the freshness of the kingfish at dinner doesn’t quantify happiness either. Though these things might affect your mood or make you more comfortable, none of these alone or together can keep you happy and fulfilled. 9

Your temperament decides if you would live a good life filled with happiness. Temperament is the mesh that holds everything together. 10

If you get upset at small things, you will stay unhappy and guilt-prone. 11

Having a bad temperament doesn’t make you a bad person. But people around you would feel like using you as a punchbag every full moon. 12

You can always improve your nature but you will have to lift heavier weights¹ than you do in the gym. 13

Every day, the smallest of the things that you do make up who you are and what you would become. 14

 

Work.

If someone talks about work-life balance, tell them they are lying. 15

Work-life is not different from personal-life— You don’t enter into a new realm after breakfast. It is the same world of your ideas, your cat, your husband’s messages, your ginger tea, and your books. 16

After work, you don’t migrate to a new realm of personal life, but you get access to a more freely flowing time. It is the same world of your thoughts, interests, and temperament unless you hate your work. 17

The more fluidly work and personal life flow into each other, the easier it is. And then one day you can’t tell the difference which is which. 18

Work should not suck. 19

Passion is the remedy for some people. 20

In the absence of passion, there is still always something that you can be good at. Find it. 21

 

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Life. 

Practice abstinence from following people unless you want to always walk behind. 22

 

Performance.

How you do one thing is how you do everything. 23

How to know if you are doing the best? A constant judgment of your choices or results would leave you more confused than a cat looking at her reflection. Your best efforts aggregate over a period of time when you work with compassion, dedication, patience, and maneuver your path every time you realize you have made a mistake. 24

You can always do better, but you don’t know how, yet. 25

 

Past. 

Rueing over a mistake is worse than trying to unfry the salmon. 26

You shouldn’t care about that Friday in 2014 when your ex Italian boyfriend threw your cashmere sweater out of the balcony as you would lie to yourself to fill the gap of memories³ and would hurt yourself by thinking imaginary things that are not winning you the best humor-book award either. Past is a fading star, and your reality is that milky moon up in the sky today. 27

The more you think about the past, the more habitual you become of thinking about the past — You start thinking to justify your actions and life so far but every time you feel you are done you will find more things to defend. You increase your reasons to worry rather than reducing them, ironically. Now you are watching the past from behind a hazy screen while your present is hazing away, too. 28

Letting go is the key to fulfillment.29

 

Things of real consequence. 

Small things are small. To keep them small you will have to stop obsessing over them. 30

Remove the phrase “it wasn’t fair” from your vocabulary and act as you deem correct or else get ready to unfry the salmon again. 31

Don’t be burdened by things that don’t seem to go your way. Things happen on their own accord, and it is hard to say what would do us good or what would do us bad. 32

You start to lose your understanding of yourself over a period of time. But remembering your roots is important to stay kind and compassionate. As they say, keep those old clothes hidden in the back of the closet. 33

The easier it is to bother you, the more you will be teased. 34

 

Happiness.

The world doesn’t care if you are in a bad mood or a good one even if you are Amitabh Bachchan. 35

No one is responsible for your happiness. 36

Self-pitying people always create a reason to pity themselves. You are not a reason for anyone’s unhappiness or the heart attacks they tell you they might get. 37

 

People and Human Condition.

If you want people to care, tell stories that they care about first. 38

People are waiting for you to cheer up so that they can laugh with you. 39

Laugh and make people laugh to keep it light. 40

People will always tell you to do what they think is right. And they all think they are right. 41

The more you try to please people, the difficult it becomes to please them. 42

People accept criticism better once you have appreciated them. 43

People like you if you put yourself below them. Put yourself on a lower pedestal a few times but don’t get used to it else you will always find yourself crawling on the grass. 44

People like you more if you let go of small things. 45

If you banter with people and show that you understand where they are coming from and you are like them, too, you have them. 46

The day you stand up to lead, people will follow you. But they will only continue following you if you bring conviction and relentlessness. 47

Everyone – even the richest and most popular people – get scared of missing out. Everyone gets jealous. 48

 

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Worry and productivity.

Worry is constipation for the mind. 49

You worry more than you need to —You always overestimate the amount of effort or pain required to complete a task. When the time comes, you don’t quantify the effort and only care for the thing to get over. Later on, you always feel that it wasn’t that hard or it was different from how you had imagined it. Worry less. 50

Bad days won’t leave you alone. Someone who doesn’t have bad days is playing PubG on Google Pixel or binge-watching Money Heist. 51

Instead of brooding on bad days, do something you enjoy, whatever gives you pleasure or brings clarity. Get to your deliverables when you stop wishing the world to end. Now you don’t have a bad day but a few relaxing hours. 52

 

Fun.

Sometimes doing nothing and watching squirrels frolicking around should be your g̶o̶a̶l̶ essence of the day. 53

Fun is not the coolant but it is the fuel. Or: Don’t play to work better — Play to play. 54

Enjoyment doesn’t mean instant-gratification — You don’t have to grin every second, but the idea is not to cry to sleep every day either. 55

Instant gratification does refill our willpower. Now manipulate the willpower to do whatever you like. 56

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Communication.

Language needs to be changed with the company like one changes socks as per the wind of the day. 57

 

Seriousness versus Frolick.

In the advent of being sincere and poetic and philosophical, you don’t have to don Neitzsche’s countenance or stop forwarding cat memes. The greatest philosophy is in knowing and accepting who you are. 58

You can not only alienate yourself from others by being too solemn, but you can also miss out on intersecting with the free wavelengths of life. 59

Be sincere, not serious. 60

 

Knowledge.

If you know a little bit about everything, you are better placed than a lot of other people. 61

The easiest way to learn a lot about a lot of things is by reading books. 62

Don’t learn to be better than others. Learn to understand better. 63

 

Money.

Money can’t buy happiness or wisdom or well-being or relationships or anything valuable. But no-money buys unhappiness. 64

You are precious if you are not running behind money like everyone else. If you have skills, the money will come. 65

Money can buy flight tickets to Colombia and peri-peri french fries and these come close to happiness on some days. 66

 

Kindness.

Every act of kindness has the power to multiply like water hyacinth. 67

Kindness flows back. 68

Being kind sucks sometimes. 69

Ask everyone who shows up at your home for water. You never know who is drying in the drought. 70

You shouldn’t depend on your partner to do all the benevolent deeds — If he is softer than you, you still have to keep your flame of compassion and kindness ablaze. 71

 

Care, Writing, Art, and Performance.

Everyone can write. But you can only write well on the things you care about. 72

A lot of things can be only done well if you care. 73

Don’t shun something you aren’t proud of. See how you can improve. And that might make all the difference. 74

Lack of focus might not have anything to do with the quality  of the result— Maybe it wasn’t the right time for that idea. Try it later. 75

Believing in a secret ingredient can delay you from forming your own magical formula. 76

You cannot be there before you are there. The process is the result. 77

The road only shows up when you walk ahead. 78

 

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Feelings and experiences.

We feel, and that is why anything matters². 79

You can never feel anyone else’s experience or happiness so don’t pity them or hate them. 80

 

Jealousy, Comparison, and Copying Others.

Everyone is figuring out something or the other. 81

The people you think got it easy never had it easy. Even a white, well-educated American male struggles in deciding how to handle the privilege. And his experience counts. 82

If you want to get something that someone else has, you should try exchanging your genome to theirs, living their past life, and getting in their head first. If you haven’t had enough, try following their routine for a month. Start with Elon Musk. Now notice how absurd the idea was. 83

The more we try to become like someone, the further we go away from becoming ourselves. 84

If you are doing something because others are doing it, then the only thing you are doing is copying. 85

You don’t have to avoid something because others are not doing it. 86

 

Forgiveness.

You can forgive people or you can reproach them about how they hurt you — But it is not about them anymore, it is about you. 87

Instead of a reprimand, a gentle nudge in the right direction can do more good to everyone. 88

 

People, Dispositions, and Human Condition.

Experience helps but being a novice at something could be lucky sometimes. 89

People don’t mean everything they say. Stop taking everything literally. 90

Not everything is about you. 91

Instead of defending yourself, hit a joke with another joke. Have fun. 92

Crime isn’t committed by bad people — It is committed by people. You could have been one of those people if things didn’t work out for you the way they did. 93

Good looks leave a better first impression. Sorry, the world is biased. 94

 

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Friends.

Close friends can heal you faster than a cup of tea. Create healthy relationships for they carry you when you cannot walk. 95

Friends won’t wait for you eternally — Their life is going on while you are busy creating yours. You can either be in both lives at the same time or you can see yourself disappearing slowly from their story. 96

 

Doing One Thing at a Time.

Don’t try to do it all . 97

If you can’t resist doing it all — do it one at a time. 98

Multitask in things that aren’t that important. 99

 

Blogging and Art.

Blogging or writing or cartooning or doodling or Youtubing comes from a space within. It is not about how much you know, it is about how less you know and how curious you are. 100

No two blogs can be the same — people behind them are driven by different things. 101

A dilettante can’t win long-term by pretending. 102

 

Everyone looks at things differently.

 

Things of Real Consequence.

The world is a jungle book — and you can be the man-cub. Being different could be your way. 103

Not everyone cares for your stupid examples. 104

If you are thinking about the same problems over and over (the dictionary of Obscure Sorrows describes this weariness with the same old issues as Altschmerz) it doesn’t mean that you haven’t made any progress. Progress reflects in how you struggle with those problems. 105

It is okay to not know about the art classics as long as you know about the classics of life. 106

 

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Love.

There are fewer things better than love. Let yourself fall in love. 107

Love will come and go but don’t forget to work on yourself while you are floating in the pool of love. Else you will sink soon. 108

Your partner is your portable home. 109

 

Overthinking.

If you are on the wrong path, you wouldn’t miss it because you were not thinking about it. But if you overbear yourself with the same thoughts, you would definitely end up tumbling. 110

 

Work, Monotony, Skills, Fun, and Life.

When something becomes really boring, then we are in a position to change the rules. 111

This constant tug of war between work and recreation cannot be always justified by spending more time at work — it can be only pacified by being more aware while working. 112

Doing laundry is not a waste of time. Rather than detesting the household chores, you can be open about learning something new and giving it your best as life isn’t only about the time you spent typing on your Mac. Instead, you type because you live a life away from the keyboard. Remember that work and life aren’t disjoint. 113

 

Things of Real Consequence.

It is okay if you don’t remember high school science. But high school science does make adult life better. 114

Keep your basics right. Visit the dentist. Get that checkup done. Now shift to autopilot and free yourself for other stuff. 115

Don’t get married or have a baby as absentmindedly as you switch on the television every night after returning from work. Getting married or having a child is a personal decision in spite of what the world tells you. 116

Television is designed to engage you in brainless activities that keep you hooked. Unhook and pick a book or play cards with friends, you will be more fulfilled. 117

 

Habits.

Habits can kill you or make you. Go back to the time when your mother used to discourage you from eating chocolate solely by making a statement about it being a good habit or not. 118

Worrying about forming good habits is paradoxical. Don’t do it. 119

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Things of Real Consequence.

Life could end anytime. But you live like it won’t until the last moment. 120

Most probably people would judge you, but it has nothing to do with you. 121

Keeping a gun isn’t about personal protection. 122

Democracy is a pretense. 123

Don’t let any relationship define you. 124

Banks never care about the customer. They only pretend to. Think for yourself. 125

It is okay to feel lonely. 126

Parents are jealous of their children. Your life always seems easier than theirs. Don’t hold it against them. 127

 

Getting the Best.

Getting the best every time is only worth it if you are unaffected if you don’t get the best. Worrying over perfection is paradoxical. 128

 

Things of Real Consequence. 

If you can think about it, someone else can, too. If you feel it, someone else has felt it, too. What makes you different from others is what you do then. 129

Life isn’t like a book, but more like concentric circles. 130

Creativity is larger than life because it creates life. 131

A day is made up of good time, okay time, and bad time. 132

Every day is different from the previous one, even though it seems like exactly the same. 133

Not everything can be resolved by reading an article about it. 134

Stubborn, egotistic, and relentless avant-garde people shift the world. 135

You like to hide things deep inside. Then you think about those things to comfort yourself in the hour of need, and that is okay. 136

You would feel like hurting people at times. Especially if they are more successful or more beautiful or they have hurt you before. But don’t do it. 137

 

Learning.

Ethnolinguistics should be a subject in school. So should be emotional intelligence, personal growth, sex education, writing, arts, speech, gender identity, international relations, communication skills. If they are not, study them on your own. 138

Learn new words to express the best you can.  139

Studying a subject meticulously doesn’t take the poetry out of it. You would know the concepts and patterns so that you can identify them and use them or refuse to use them on your will. 140

 

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Fulfillment.

Watching that molten sunset could be one of the most fulfilling things of the day. 141

 

Following instructions.

Don’t do something just because someone else asked you to do it. Run on reason. 142

 

Things of Real Consequence.

Until you think right you are compromising. 143

Find the fuel that your creativity demands. To begin with, live, laugh, run, cry, talk. 144

When you don’t understand something, pause. Or restart. 145

 

Traveling Solo.

You don’t need to justify why you want to travel alone. (the linked article is only an expression of how I feel when I travel and not a justification. )146

The beginning of a solo trip is always a little scary. You feel that it is you against the world. You imagine that everyone is watching you or laughing at you because you are wandering alone. But if you let the fear go for a second and look up, you will see that people are minding their own business and not staring at you. Trust the universe. 147

You would have to step out of your comfort zone if you want to grow. Travel is the means to this end. 148

 

Things of Real Consequence.

A cat, or anyone else, is yours because of the time you give to each other⁴. 149

Everyone gets scared. But in spite of the fear, you should let yourself walk, make a mistake, receive feedback with open arms, and do it again. Break that wall of fear brick by brick. Now you are free to face another fear. 150

You would never be able to win the approval of negative people, so the earlier you show them the way out, the less emotional baggage you will carry. 151

The show goes on. Participate. 152

 

 

The Continuum of The World.

Everything is connected — The work we do, the way we treat people, the way they talk to us, the appreciation we get, the food we eat, the people we hang out with, the places we want to visit, the guilt we carry, and the memories we relish. Don’t have disjoint expectations from each part of your life. 153

The world is a continuum. The better we can interconnect ideas, the more easily we can float in life⁵. 154

 

Things of Real Consequence.

Only experience can tell if something will work. 155

You can’t win by always playing hard to get. 156

No one has the power to upset you unless you give it to them. 157

It is not always easy to differentiate the cause from the result. 158

You would forget that it was about having fun. Remind yourself frequently. 159

Our ideas, promotions, commitments, financial planning, relationships all are there to make life better. So if something goes down, don’t despair: its presence was to keep you good, but its absence doesn’t mean hell. You will get everything as long as you can breathe peacefully. 160

Things always work out if you just hold on a little longer. But they may come to you in a different form from how you recognize them.161

Intuition is the collective consciousness of the life we have lived so far. Don’t ignore it. 162

Any good service or product or writing or art starts with being about you but then it is all about the people. 163

To forgive someone might seem unfair to you, but when you forgive, you soak in peace — thus getting your fair share. 164

There is always an option. 165

Art breathes inside each one of us. 166

Smile for you feel how you act. 167

Don’t just respect someone for their age, respect wisdom and kindness, and all such noble dispositions. 168

 

Learning and Unlearning

There is art in science and science in art. Once you connect the two, you have found infinity. 169

To create, first understand the rules, and then break them. 170

At some point, you start limiting yourself — Maybe when your mother first tells you that you can’t go out alone or when the neighbor comments that his son could do better than you or when the teacher scolds you for trying to understand the basics rather than repeating her answer or when you see an advertisement for a fairness cream that suggests you get fairer to have a better life. But the truth is inside the box of reason. Open it. 171

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Noise.

The background noise sounds louder when you are having a hard time. 172

 

Goals and Determination.

You can do anything that you set your mind upon. 173

Without goals, you are as directionless as a sunflower is at night. 174

If you are ready to receive what comes along the way, you start moving in the direction of your goal little by little. 175

Give what it takes. And then some more. 176

 

Things of Real Consequence.

Don’t be scared to lose yourself, for you might be on the path of discovering yourself. 177

Think deep, not wide.178

Most of the things have a simpler solution than you think. 179

Society is judgemental police. 180

Don’t let anyone else write your story. 181

Everything has an expiry date. 182

Sometimes you do your best work when you are tired —You would only make the effort to write that sentence if it is too good to let go. 183

Soak inspiration from the universe. 184

Words are wings. When not wings, they are swords. Choose your flights and battles wisely. 185

Your brain would expand into the time you give it to do something. Too less, and it hurries up. More, it stretches out. 186

When you feel angry or dejected, eat. Eventually, it is all about some curry and rice. 187

 

 

Walk on dewy mountain trails fringed by pines trees often.  The joy is unbridled. 188

 

 

If you let go of boundaries set by others, you can tune into infinite wavelengths of freedom and choice. But be careful to not tune into noise again. 189

You need much less than you think you do. 190

Climbing stairs is always better than taking an elevator. Move your body as much as you reflex your brain so that you can climb that mountain when you want to. 191

Eventually, everything gets done. So instead of worrying, pause and breath frequently. Or kick a punching bag. Or restart your laptop to first get rid of those annoying notifications. Fix the basics. 192

The best way to live is to act as if no one is watching you. 193

There is time. There is strength. And then there is love. 

If you see a longer piece of work taking time in spite of your best efforts, stand in front of a mirror. 194

When you think you have given it all, the universe will ask for more, and you will find yourself giving it more. 195

Sometimes you get into something so deep that you forget that you are inside. Let love find you at those times. 196

 

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Footnotes:

1-Benjamin Franklin made a record of his everyday routine and checked if he worked on his vices.

2-Daniel Gilbert says in his book Stumbling on Happiness— Feelings don’t just matter, they are what mattering means. Are war and peace more important for any reason other than the feelings they produce?

3. We don’t remember out past as well as we think. You will find enough proof of this in Daniel Gilbert’s monumental book Stumbling on Happiness.

4. If I could suggest one book to anyone, it would be The Little Prince by Antoine de Saint-Exupéry.

5. I don’t think I can put better than this: There are no separate systems. The world is a continuum. Where to draw a boundary around a system depends on the purpose of the discussion― Donella H. Meadows

 

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Hold on Even After Your Hands Bleed – For That Is The Only Way to Succeed

You would encounter sharp rocks jutting out of every mountain you wish to climb. Let me show you through my perseverant journey as a budding writer, that why do you have to keep going on even if your hands bleed. Never give up. Fight for your dreams. That is the only way to succeed. 

You start. You are exhilarated. You shriek at the top of your voice from the roof of your confidence. You laugh from your stomach. You give long motivational speeches to your friend about how they need to start living. You wake up singing a tune about the morning sunshine. You look forward to Mondays because life has taken a route that you could only dream about.

People say you are inspiring. They applaud you. Your friends like and share everything you post. They read everything you write. Some of them even help you correct the grammar. You are glad as being corrected by friends is better than being ridiculed by your other readers.

You don’t worry about the money, yet, as the savings save you. Your family is appalled by your decision. But they don’t say anything this time. The last time they did, their words dug a deep valley between you two.

Your Mac is your new Nietzsche. All your philosophy seems to pour out of it.

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Golden Highlights of 2018 – A Year of Writing, Love, and Nomadness.

The whistles of a black kite which is hovering above me in the light blue sky are the only sounds that break my attention now and then. In front of me, a green parrot just flew by; I see more of them in the morning, when one after another they go, searching for grains and guavas and water and, maybe, more parrots. The coffee cuckoo, similar to the one that used to visit me in my previous apartment, also flew from one tree to another in the park in front of my writing studio.

I have stationed myself in one corner of this studio on a chatayi or as we say a mat nowadays, and from here I write my heart out. In this nomadic life, you can find me on and off in Bangalore, for I always come here to be with my partner, and thus I pen down many pieces from his vicinity with a temporary feeling of home.

Having spent more than four months now as a nomad, I have realized that you don’t have to own or rent an apartment to be at home. Neither are you always on the go even if you are living a nomadic life.

At the end of the day when I think about getting back home, I imagine a quiet place, where the bathroom taps do not drip and where I cannot hear the screeching tires or intruding honks, but I can only tune into the crickets singing songs to each other. Where I can lay on a bed or in a sleeping bag in a tent, preferably tucked away in the midst of trees, with a warm cup of tea and a book to read. From where I can make a phone call to my parents and family for they worry if I disappear for even a day. I imagine a home that is a window into the world, or it has a window from where I can see the world, which I like to have at a distance. And that is all.

Such are my preferences these days. I started penning down this article to tell you about how my priorities shaped up the year 2018, and so on I go.

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How to Achieve Your Goals – 12 Principles I Have Stuck to Since I Was 15–Years–Old

I was a science and a mathematics girl. Having seen my interest and capability in the sciences, my brother decided that I should compete to get into the IITs, the MIT of India, and become an engineer.

As I hail from a small town, which doesn’t offer many educational opportunities, my father took me to Kota, a city in the desert of Rajasthan, admitted me in one of the private institutions of the coaching-hub of India, and left me in that unknown town; I was fifteen years old and hadn’t stayed away from my parents for more than a few days.

At my first attempt at the entrance examination, I failed. At the second attempt, for which I dropped a year, I ranked seventy-eight (78) amongst half-a-million students.

It didn’t happen by chance. I was young. Though now it seems weird to think that I understood the importance of goals back then, I knew I had to achieve my goal. And it didn’t seem that hard at that time; I just had to crack the concepts, practice, and give exams.

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